A common question I get in sex therapy is “Why can’t I have an orgasm?” The answer can be complicated, and there are often more than one contributing factors. Because a lack of education is often involved, let’s start with a definition: The orgasm is...
When libidos don’t match up, it might seem to make practical sense for the higher-sex-drive person to look for sex outside the marriage. The fact that prostitution is considered “the oldest profession” attests to how often this solution is chosen. Unfortunately, it rarely works, unless...
There are many reasons couples come to sex therapy. These four are the most common: Couples seek sex therapy to see if they are normal. Rest assured, whether you worried are about anatomy, sexual abilities, activities or dysfunctions, many others have had your concerns. If...
It is unfortunate that we have a stigma about sex therapy in our society, particularly because therapy is usually successful. The majority of couples who seek professional help find solutions. And the sooner they reach out, the better their chance of improving their sex life....
New sex therapy clients often begin with questions about a non-existent sex drive, also known as low libido, or hypoactive sexual desire disorder. There are many causes of this common condition: Sleep patterns Stress Age Life changes like menopause, a new baby, new job, moving...
There is a stigma in American society about seeking help—particularly for problems of an intimate nature. But the truth is, marital problems never go away by themselves; they get worse over time, because people keep using the same tools to solve them. Marriage counseling breaks...
If you’re having problems in your committed relationship or marriage, chances are they won’t go away by themselves. It can be lifesaving to get help from an unbiased marriage counselor or sex therapist, who has probably seen your situation before and found solutions. It can...
Sex therapy helps people build more satisfying lives. It enables intimacy and closeness, and is appropriate for anyone with a concern about their sexual health. It can also help people who want accurate information regarding relationships and sex. A vital sex life is a circle:...
Sex therapy can be rough. You may have to talk about things you have long avoided, or dig into issues that have caused many a sleep-on-the-couch night. But in order to get the most out of your counseling sessions, you have to be willing to...
You’ve been going to marriage counseling to work through some issues related to intimacy. Did you make the right choice of therapists? You and your partner can decide if your therapist was a good pick by asking yourselves two sets of questions around two broad...