Top 10 Human Male Sexuality Myths

Human male sexuality myths are hard to shake

Wonder where all these sex myths come from? They are started the minute we are born. Whether we know it or not. Whether we want it or not.

We can, however, become conscious and DO something THINK something TRY something different! All that is in our power to change.

We have sensitivities and insecurities about sex and these messages are able to penetrate our minds. The media is great at portraying the same sexual messages and it is all fantasy based.

Myth1: We are all very comfortable with sex… We are liberated

Fact is we are not and there is a lot more to “sex” then we are conscious about and that is when we can grow.

All the ideas about what is good sex perfect bodies youth, passion that is always “on fire”, penis size and performance are never an issue, and everyone ends up feeling fulfilled.

This may even occur with people you don’t even know. These are all reinforced by erotica that our society perpetuates.

Our society parents are not comfortable with allowing their children to self-explore their own bodies, or to openly discuss pleasure and sex.

lFamilies pass down information and belief systems that continue, until one gets brave enough to challenge them and reach for better and healthier beliefs.

Don’t buy into that we are all so liberated and knowledgeable about our bodies and sex; what feels good what doesn’t; or what is “normal” according to our society.

Go challenge yourself and obtain a closer more satisfying relationship with yourself and your partner.

Myth 2: Real Men aren’t into feelings and communication

Men do have trouble expressing feelings. They aren’t supposed to be comfortable or have needs around feelings, so they express through sex.

Women express through talking, and this difference leads to a distance and other communication problems that are necessary for our health. These include areas of birth control and STDs. Pretty important stuff to be sharing!

A bigger non-truth this plays into is men don’t have personal problems. Truth is they have just as many personal problems as women, including sexual ones.

So open up guys and share feelings. Your relationship will benefit, and you may even have more and better sex!

Myth 3: Touching means you want sex

Touch means different things for men and women.

Women tend to touch for the close feelings that are produced, a hug for the sake of a hug. Men tend to touch for a means to an end… intercourse.

This creates problems down the road for those who just want to lie close to each other and feel the moment. Pressure is than placed on the act of sex and orgasm, rather than being connected.

It also creates problems when the man has erectile dysfunction.

The next two myths relate in similar ways to the preceding myth, and myths four, five, six, and seven have to do with the PENIS!

Myth 4: A man is always ready and wanting sex

Sexual interest is learned. Manhood, as most have learned, is all about always being interested in having sex and never saying no.

Men would greatly benefit from saying no when they are not in the mood. This will not only lead to LESS PERFORMANCE PROBLEMS, but more touch and nuturing from our mates. This brings more intimacy into relationships and everyone needs that!

Listen to your own needs; this would require you to tap into your feelings, which can be difficult. But it’s a necessary skill for living happily ever after.

Boys are often pushed too soon into feeling like they have to have sex. Bernie Zilbergeld says, “If you aren’t ready to talk to someone about sex, and if you aren’t ready to ask them for a back rub or hug, you’re definitely not ready to have good sex with them.”

Myth 5: A real man always performs

Once again society rears its ugly head on what human male sexuality should be.

It’s all about performance and men proving something to themselves and others. If the woman doesn’t get pleasure then he has failed.

WOW, what an awful way to end such a beautiful exchange.